If you are due to attend divorce court, you may be struggling to decide what to wear. It’s great that you are already giving it some consideration, as showing up without due thought about appropriate attire could jeopardize your chances of success.
The first thing to remember is that first impressions count. Unless you have come across the judge before, then like it or not, they are going to make some kind of snap decision about you. It doesn’t mean they can’t change their opinion as the hearing progresses, but first impressions do matter.
Do some research
Not all divorce courts or judges working in them are the same. Some have a more formal feel than others. If your particular judge is known for being a snappy dresser who tries to make participants in a hearing feel as relaxed as possible then your choice of outfits will be more open than if the judge is known for being staid and conservative in their personal and professional life.
Consider the matter at stake
Are you going to seek a larger-than-average amount of spousal support by claiming that you would fall below the poverty line without it? Turning up bedecked in diamonds and Gucci might not be your best strategy in this case.
Show up well-groomed but comfortable
Maybe you are really struggling for money right now and your divorce has left you in tatters emotionally. That does not mean you should try to demonstrate that to the court by turning up with unbrushed hair, filthy nails and crumpled clothing. Turning up looking clean and presentable shows you acknowledge the seriousness of the matter at hand and the authority of the court and judge.
By the same token, you don’t want to spend your time in court sweating or fidgeting because you overdressed for the occasion, as this could distract you from giving the hearing your full attention.
With appropriate guidance, you can learn more about how best to prepare for this and other aspects of your divorce.
